Won’t Stop Playing to Use Bathroom

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Help! My 6 year old daughter will not stop playing to use the bathroom. When she squirms, I remind her to go. She reluctantly stops and always has a lot to pee out. But if I don’t remind her, she will sometimes wet herself when she is only a few feet from the bathroom. I had her urine checked, which is fine. I’ve tried rewards, punishment, and praise. What do you recommend?

I know this is frustrating, but here are 6 tips that should help.

Make sure she is not constipated. Increase fiber and pay attention to when she has stools. Having a full bowel can decrease the sensation from the bladder and can decrease the amount of urine her bladder holds.

Make sure she drinks enough water throughout the day. Beverages with citrus, sugar and food coloring can make the bladder more irritable.

Implement a timed voiding program. Your daughter will be reminded to urinate at regular times, usually two hours apart. Her job is to go to the bathroom when she is reminded, even if she does not feel the need to do so. It’s best if the reminder is not you and if it is something portable.

Use a vibratory wrist watch as her discreet reminder. The VibraLITE Mini is a great vibratory reminder watch for girls her age. The other children will not know that this watch reminds her to go to the bathroom. Make sure she wears her watch every day, even weekends.

Reward cooperation. If she consistently goes to the bathroom when the watch vibrates, she can get a sticker or token. Following through when the watch reminds her to use the bathroom is something that she has control over. By cooperating, the ultimate reward will be dry underwear.

Wear the watch for several months. Over time, her bladder will begin to get the feeling of being emptied on a regular schedule, rather than becoming overfull and leaking.

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Bedwetting Alarms that Record Parent’s Voice

I saw NBCs report on Kids Sleeping through Smoke Alarms, and was not surprised. In Jeff Rosen’s investigative report, 3 boys, ages 9,8 and 4, were told that a fire alarm would be going off that night and their reaction would be recorded to see how they would react in a real fire. All 3 children slept through the loud alarm. They stayed asleep until their parents went in and woke them up. In the follow-up Dateline report last night, a researcher from Ohio’s Nationwide Children’s Hospital stated that children sleep differently from adults; that they spend more time in deep sleep so it’s harder for them to awaken in the case of an emergency. He reported that a smoke detector that records parent’s voices is being researched but the results will not be available for a year.

A bedwetting alarm that records parent’s voices is already available. The Malem Recordable Bedwetting Alarm plays a 10-second “user recorded” message when it senses wetness. Families have reported that recording their voice saying their child’s name and giving instructions has worked when other things have failed. This alarm also features a choice of 8 pre-recorded sounds and vibration, giving families all the options for alerting their child.

The reports’ conclusions are not surprising to me because most parents report that their children sleep through the loud sound of any bedwetting alarm initially. Parents can’t believe that their child doesn’t wake instantly and are often concerned that a bedwetting alarm won’t work for them. We know that children respond best to their own parents and we recommend that all parents respond to the bedwetting alarm’s sound by going to their child’s room, waking them and reminding them what to do next. Over time, children often do learn to respond more independently. So, using an alarm with a recorded message or parents going to the room to do the waking are important in the beginning.

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Results with the Dry-Me Alarm

What a success story from this Mommy Blogger, Shawn Ann, from Shawn Ann’s World.
Her son was wetting every night and had not responded to waking by parents, setting a timer and limiting fluids. Read their story here. While using the Dry-Me bedwetting alarm, he went from nightly wetting to having dry nights in just a few weeks. He quickly learned to stay dry while using this small, comfortable alarm and can now have sleepovers with friends without worry.

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